Buchenwald survivors arrive in Haifa to be arrested by the British, July 15, 1945, from "To the Promised Land" by Uri Dan (Doubleday, 1987)

Plug Into
The Positive: Choose Hope


"We begin by giving ourselves a powerful boost. Plug into the desire to stop feeling stuck in the quicksand of negativity and despair. Decide now to make a conscious effort to radiate positivity."

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Hatikva at Bergen-Belsen

In this rare and moving recording dated April 20th 1945, inmates at Bergen Belsen Concentration Camp sing the anthem of hope 'Hatikva.'

Human nature is drawn to the negative. We pay attention to the stains, the frustrations, that which irritates us. We are surrounded by news that makes us feel down and fear of the unknown.

If we want to be more positive, let’s begin by turning off the constant feed of news and social media that ignite anxiety. Stop checking your phone every few minutes. Set aside a time each day to check your device but otherwise don’t pay attention to the stories that sap you. Worry and fear never uplifts us.

Working on ourselves to be less critical and judgmental cleans our life lens and brings us greater joy. It’s draining to be constantly angry. Remember, nothing grows in acidic soil. Negative interactions breed negative relationships.

Plugging into the positive means recognizing the times that things are going right. Think of the many blessings you have but have taken for granted. The friends, the family, the time spent with loved ones. Collect good memories in your mind. Draw upon them to nourish your soul, especially when feeling down. Happy reflections bring us to a place of joy. Think of times you felt encouraged, people in your life who infused you with their spirit. These are your hugs from Above that let you know that you’re cherished and watched over.

Discover friendship. Not social media, but a true friend, someone who may already be in your life, like a family member or someone you’ve known ‘forever’ but forgotten to cherish, and give of yourself and your time. Loneliness is toxic.

It takes hard work to rid ourselves of our negative eye but it is life changing. Begin with a simple step. Seek out one person each day to say ‘thank you’. A spouse, a parent, a child, a friend, a neighbor, a stranger, there’s no end once you start thinking. You will realize how much good you have overlooked. Show me a grateful person and I will show you a happy person.

There is much we cannot understand during difficult times. But we can strive to bring ourselves to a place of greater meaning, joy and positivity that will sustain us.

How To Go From Hopeless To Hopeful

We begin by giving ourselves a powerful boost. Plug into the desire to stop feeling stuck in the quicksand of negativity and despair. Decide now to make a conscious effort to radiate positivity.

Here are a few steps to take:

1. Shift Your Thinking

Change the way you handle life’s stresses. When you notice yourself going into negative territory or ‘awfulizing’ your life, stop. Replace the negative with positive. Don’t write the worst scenario possible. Eliminate toxic expressions: “I can’t do this anymore.” “This is not normal. I’m losing my mind.” “Everything’s crazy.” These verbalizations bring us into a bad place and spread emotional toxins into the atmosphere.

Instead of saying “I can’t”, say “It’s hard but I can.” Use words like, “It’s going to be all right”, “We’ll make it”, and “We’ll be okay.” Spread positivity.

We will get through this challenge. But how we get through the challenge depends on our self-work.

2. Find Small Pockets Of Peace

It’s not all or nothing. Maybe you can’t take that vacation you were planning or even go out for lunch with friends but you can find moments of emotional, mental and spiritual strength. A five minute stretch a couple of times a day while you’re working, a brisk morning walk, Facetiming a friend, sitting in quiet with a delicious tea or cappuccino, listening to a Torah talk or uplifting music – these are all small ideas that create a big impact.

Ask yourself: what kind of self-care is realistic for you right now?

3. Have Vision

When all we see is the darkness of today we live with a limited lens. “This too shall pass,” is a wonderful piece of Jewish wisdom. Nothing lasts forever. Not the good and not the bad. When this pandemic and unrest is over, how do you plan to rebuild your life? How have you changed for the better these past few months? What are the positives that came out of these days?

If you haven’t discovered anything positive yet, now is the time to contemplate. Some families have rediscovered dinner time together and the joy that comes from sharing a meal and conversation. Others realize how much they had loved spending time with friends, family or hugs from grandparents but they had taken these moments together for granted. Think about how you will recapture the missed memories once we can join together again.

4. Know Our Nation’s Past

Remind yourself of the miraculous story of the Jewish people. This is not the first time we have experienced incredible worry and fear. Through each period of darkness, when the world was ready to proclaim Kaddish on our nation, we triumphed. Our nation has an eternal promise from God until today: “God does not abandon His people.” If you study Jewish history you see clearly that there is a Divine plan in the world. We have risen from the ashes. As long as there is life there is hope.

Our nation lives. For 2,000 years we have wandered but we have not lost our way. Jerusalem beckons us. Our souls are alive, waiting to be reignited. Hope is in our hearts.

A Story Of Hope To Take With Us:

The British Second Army liberated the Bergen-Belsen death camp in April 1945. On the first Friday after being liberated, the British Jewish army chaplain, L.H. Hardman, led the first Shabbat service for the gaunt survivors. The BBC’s veteran broadcaster, Richard Dimbleby, sounded on the verge of tears as he witnessed the first Shabbat prayer ceremony held openly on German soil since the beginning of that hellish time.

BBC radio reporter Patrick Gordon Walker describes what he saw.

“Around us lay the corpses there had not been time to clear away. People were still lying down and dying, in broad daylight…a few hundred people gathered together, sobbing openly in joy at their liberation and in sorrow at the memory of their parents, brothers, and sisters that had been taken from them, gassed and burned. These people knew they were being recorded, they wanted the world to hear their voice. They made a tremendous effort, which quite exhausted them. Listen.”

With people still dying around them, these surviving Jews sang Hatikvah – The Hope, which would become the Israeli national anthem. At that moment, these brave souls wanted mankind to know that despite the pain, the atrocities, the degradation, the indescribable suffering, we never lost our hope. We were determined to hold onto our dreams, our vision of the land of Israel, and the beauty of Jerusalem. No one can ever strip us of our hope. No death march can ever destroy our will to live.

At the conclusion of the song a voice declares “Am Yisrael Chai, the children of Israel still lives!”

Hold onto hope. We will make it through.

Adapted from articles first published on Aish.com https://aish.com

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Hatikva at Bergen-Belsen

In this rare and moving recording dated April 20th 1945, inmates at Bergen Belsen Concentration Camp sing the anthem of hope 'Hatikva.'

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